Trauma Shapes Identity: The Interplay of Trauma and the Anatomy of Relationship Crisis in A Thousand Splendid Suns

S. Ilakkiah, Dr. Sonu Joseph

Abstract: Trauma can destroy the foundation of an individual?s identity, leaving the individual to deal with the shattered pieces of the self. It deeply scars the psyche, leaving permanent scars that shape the contours of one?s self-image. Survivors often struggle with deep feelings of shame, guilt, and worthlessness, and internalize victim narratives forced upon them by the trauma. This research paper examines the complex interplay of trauma, identity formation, and relationship crisis as depicted in Khaled Hosseini?s novel A Thousand Splendid Suns. This study draws on psychological theory and literary analysis to explore how trauma shape?s personal identity and influences interpersonal dynamics. It reveals the transformative power of trauma in shaping individual identities and creating narrative conflicts through an investigation of characters Mariam and Laila, who hold the complexities of trauma in Afghanistan?s socio-political context. By analyzing the key moments of crisis and resilience, the paper reveals the psychological mechanisms, by which trauma influences self-perception, attachment styles, and relationship dynamics. Additionally, it explores how trauma-related psychological scars intersect with cultural norms, gender roles, and power relations, ultimately shaping the characters? experiences of love and loyalty. This interdisciplinary analysis contributes to a deeper understanding of the impact of trauma on individual identity construction and the complexity of relationships in the context of adversity and resilience.

Keywords: Trauma, Identity, Gender, Psychology, Relationship, Culture

How to Cite?: S. Ilakkiah, Dr. Sonu Joseph, "Trauma Shapes Identity: The Interplay of Trauma and the Anatomy of Relationship Crisis in A Thousand Splendid Suns", Volume 14 Issue 11, November 2025, International Journal of Science and Research (IJSR), Pages: 154-156, https://www.ijsr.net/getabstract.php?paperid=SR251103145154, DOI: https://dx.doi.org/10.21275/SR251103145154